How Can You Attract a BDSM Mistress?

It takes a lot of work to attract a BDSM mistress. You can never completely get their attention because dominatrixes are out of your league. You can never be at their level. But, you can try to be a good, subservient submissive so that the mistress takes note of you and allows you to spend time with her. To be in the good books of a professional BDSM mistress in London, you need to do your homework. Below given are a few helpful tips that might help you get started.

Do not make assumptions

When submissives look for dominatrixes, they tend to make a lot of assumptions regarding how they should look. You would be surprised to know that seemingly good girls can be the dominant woman you have been waiting for your whole life. Such girls are a lot more fun as they know how to play games. Their appearance helps them hide their sadistic desires and that might be a lot of fun for both of you.

Know what you need and want

Dommes do not prefer being played, but they like to play games with their subs. Dominatrixes do not enjoy guessing what interests their subs. If you are unaware of what you want or need, you might end up being disappointed with a domme’s company. There are different categories of BDSM play and to be satisfied, you have to know what turns you on. For instance, there are men who like to be verbally humiliated and there are those who like to be spanked. You have to decide if you are a masochist and want intense BDSM play or you are someone looking for light bondage fun. You should know your limits so that the domme can accordingly arrange the session.

Be a good submissive

Being a good submissive means listening and obeying the commands and orders of the mistress. You also must refer to her as ‘Madam’ or ‘Ma’am’. You should never directly look into her eyes, and speak only when spoken to. By giving up control and allowing her to have her way with you, you are inching towards being one of the domme’s favourite submissive.

So, these are a few things that you can try to impress a BDSM mistress. However, do not get your hopes up as dominatrixes are not very easy to attract or satisfy.