How Can You Attract a BDSM Mistress?

It takes a lot of work to attract a BDSM mistress. You can never completely get their attention because dominatrixes are out of your league. You can never be at their level. But, you can try to be a good, subservient submissive so that the mistress takes note of you and allows you to spend time with her. To be in the good books of a professional BDSM mistress in London, you need to do your homework. Below given are a few helpful tips that might help you get started.

Do not make assumptions

When submissives look for dominatrixes, they tend to make a lot of assumptions regarding how they should look. You would be surprised to know that seemingly good girls can be the dominant woman you have been waiting for your whole life. Such girls are a lot more fun as they know how to play games. Their appearance helps them hide their sadistic desires and that might be a lot of fun for both of you.

Know what you need and want

Dommes do not prefer being played, but they like to play games with their subs. Dominatrixes do not enjoy guessing what interests their subs. If you are unaware of what you want or need, you might end up being disappointed with a domme’s company. There are different categories of BDSM play and to be satisfied, you have to know what turns you on. For instance, there are men who like to be verbally humiliated and there are those who like to be spanked. You have to decide if you are a masochist and want intense BDSM play or you are someone looking for light bondage fun. You should know your limits so that the domme can accordingly arrange the session.

Be a good submissive

Being a good submissive means listening and obeying the commands and orders of the mistress. You also must refer to her as ‘Madam’ or ‘Ma’am’. You should never directly look into her eyes, and speak only when spoken to. By giving up control and allowing her to have her way with you, you are inching towards being one of the domme’s favourite submissive.

So, these are a few things that you can try to impress a BDSM mistress. However, do not get your hopes up as dominatrixes are not very easy to attract or satisfy.

Forget About Your Troubles with a BDSM Mistress

Do you like it better when escorts are in control? If so, you will love London Party Girls’ domination escorts. Our domination escorts have the experience and they have been specifically trained in the art of domination and BDSM at our London school of dominatrix. These women are broad-minded, adventurous and wild. They have a fun personality with a touch of sadism and oodles of feminine charm. They create a safe environment where you can immerse yourself in your kinky fantasies and be the slave that you have always wanted to be.

When you are with our BDSM mistress in Baker Street, you have to give up total and absolute control. You cannot think of anything else, but your domme. This is why engaging in BDSM is one of the best ways to forget about your troubles. Also, our dommes will subject you to such pleasurable pain that you will have little else to think about during the session or even when it is over.

Some of the activities that you can indulge in are tie and tease, bondage, hardsports, watersports, foot worship, spanking and so on. If you are new to this, it is important to understand that there are several levels to BDSM play. You can start slow with light BDSM where your chosen mistress might lightly spank you with her bare hands or use a whip, flogger or such other toys. If you enjoy golden showers, she might play along with your fantasies. But, the session is going to be more about pleasure and less about pain, even though you have to obey her fully.

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BDSM Fantasies to Try At Least Once

Is your sex life becoming unspiriting and staid? You might want to lean towards BDSM to instantly bring the sizzle back. If you are unaware, BDSM refers to all those activities relating to dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, and sadism and masochism. But, before entering this world, you must remember to communicate, research and plan the activities. BDSM can be both mild and extremely intense, and there is no rule that you have to like all the activities. To get you started, here are some fun BDSM fantasies that you need to try at least once.

The ball gag

The ball gag can be inserted into your mouth during any kind of sexual scenario. For instance, your mistress might be pegging you from behind and to prevent you from yelling, she can stuff your mouth with a ball gag. This will make you feel vulnerable and give the dominatrix total control over you.

 

The leash

If you are an animal enthusiast and want to take your slave play a notch higher, leashes can be introduced during the BDSM session. It can be tied around your neck and the mistress can have the other end of the leash so that she can make you walk around like a pet. You can even have a cage to make the animal/slave play more authentic.

The villain and the superhero

If are someone who has grown up watching superhero films and had a soft spot for the villain, you can bring that into your BDSM session. You can let the dominatrix play the role of the powerful villain who captures and tortures you. She might tie you up and spank you or drip hot wax on you. She will not stop until you bed her to stop the torture or use the safe word.

Pegging

If you enjoy getting prostate massages, you will love pegging. This is an activity where the BDSM mistress will make use of a strap-on or dildo to peg you from behind. She will indulge you in anal play and take control of the situation. Submissives love being handled roughly by a dominatrix.

These are only a few of the fantasies that you can try. Of course, you can do your own research and explore your likes and dislikes before booking an appointment with a dominatrix in London. Make sure to have a safe word.

Slave or Sub - Which One Are You?

There has always been a debate about the definition of what makes a sub or submissive and what makes a slave. Whilst in a community or strict sense, there are definite boundaries; but, on a personal level and even within the community of BDSM, there is a range of definitions. Also, if you have watched Fifty Shades of Grey, you might think that a slave and a sub are pretty much the same thing. However, that is not always the case.

A sub or submissive might be flexible and willing to change his boundaries to please the domme. He may even cross certain boundaries that might make him a slave. But, there are some submissives who maintain strict boundaries and do not cross over. They like to remain in their comfort zone whilst also not disobeying the domme.

In the broader sense, in a dominant-submissive relationship, a sub renews the choice to submit every single time a demand is levied. On the other hand, a slave makes a one-time choice to submit to the domme, and thereafter, it is incumbent upon them to obey all instructions and commands of the dominatrix.

So, to put it simply, a slave would be someone who completely submits to the whims and fancies of the dominatrix. He gives up every element of control on an emotional, physical and sometimes, on a financial level. A slave is a person who derives satisfaction and happiness by obeying the dominatrix, often beyond the point of their own comfort level. A submissive, on the other hand, is someone who agrees to certain boundaries with the mistress.

However, both sub and slave have similar needs in relation to their desire to be controlled, to submit and to serve; and both to a lesser or greater degree are prepared to surrender a part or all of their control to a dominatrix.

So, what do you think you are? Do you wish to completely give up control and allow the dominatrix to treat you in any way as she pleases? Or do you want to be controlled, but still maintain some kind of say in the way you are treated? If you are unsure whether you are a submissive or slave, schedule an appointment with a BDSM mistress in Marylebone and explore your preferences. A professional domme will create a safe place for you to discover what you want.